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Losing a Customer Sucks - Lessons Learned
Losing a customer is an emotional thing. It's a gut punch. It ruins the whole day. Accept responsibility. Take the lesson. Learn and adapt.
We lost a customer today.
It's part of the startup journey.
Taking responsibility is step one.
It sucks.
Customer acquisition requires so much effort.
Those phone calls build meaningful relationships.
Email negotiations take time.
But misalignment destroys everything.
Poor expectation management kills trust instantly.
This lesson stings.
Our product was not ready yet.
Customer timeline estimates missed the mark.
Expectations were high.
It's constantly jockeying between the expectation timeline and the product delivery timeline.
We couldn’t deliver.
The customer asked for a refund.
As an early-stage startup, we will not always get it right.
We accept this loss as a learning opportunity.
Lessons We're Implementing Now:
Biweekly customer update cadence regardless of progress
Buffer time added to all engineering estimations
Transparent timeline shared with customers
The startup path includes these cringe moments.
We learn through these experiences.
The iterative improvement cycle never stops.
Better systems emerge from these failures.
Our next customer interaction will benefit from today's pain.
We keep building.
We keep learning.
We get better every day.

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I am Gary Yau Chan. 3x Head of Growth. Product Growth specialist. 26x hackathon winner. Building ClarityInbox. I write about #PLG and #BuildInPublic. Please follow me on LinkedIn, or read about what you can hire me for on my Notion page.